Blaine's white counts are shot. That's what supposed to happen. He's extremely tired and has to lay very low. If he stands too long, and believe me that's not long, his blood pressure drops. So he stays down. We are trying to keep him full of fluids. No fevers or signs of infection, and that's the biggest concern. Lots of hand washing and hand sanitizer for me and anyone who comes into contact with him, though his contact with people is very limited. He has required blood twice, and will again. His platelets are now plummeting, so by day 8 they say he will need those as well. He's been nauseaous, but meds are keeping it in check. Mostly, he sleeps. It's all part of the program.
The kids are with family in Heber right now, but Kyle of course is having a tough time. Grandpa is there and Aunt Shauna, who love him, and his siblings and cousins, but they each are having a moment when it's difficult. I'm content to lay low with Blaine, not doing much, just keeping him as safe as I can. It's very hard for him right now. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but the tunnel is rough. I know now why they call them cancer warriors. Here's to my brave, valiant warrior.
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As always you are close to our hearts. Thanks for the update. All our love to you, Blaine and the kids.
ReplyDeleteWarm hugs coming your way! May peace be with you both. Where are you staying? I know you said that you had to be close to the hospital. I hope wherever it is, it is comfortable for you both.
ReplyDeleteAlanna
PS.....I've started volunteering at Mt Ascutney's Oncology Suite on Tuesday mornings, thinking of Blaine all the while I'm there. I would hope that as I work to make the patients there more comfortable, someone is doing the same for him.
ReplyDeleteHere's a virtual therapy dog visit coming your way to make you smile and let you know that we're all thinking of you, admiring your stamina, and keeping you in our prayers. So for now, just curl up on the couch, put the tail over your eyes and catch some z's -- Rocky
ReplyDeleteThanks, everyone, including Rocky. We are staying near 1300 South in the foothills area, and it's very comfortable, and nice. It's a basement appartment that was sitting empty in a home, and was offered to us. There are no animals, and no children visiting the home right now, so infection concerns are at a minimum. Thank you SO MUCH for volunteering at Mt. Ascutney oncology. So many cancer patients don't have the care giver they need, and go it alone. It's TERRIBLY difficult for them, and any help and comfort offered is so needed. My heart goes out to those who don't have the family, ward/church, community help we've had. It has to be agonizingly hard. You are all so VERY, VERY appreciated. I hope everyone knows that.
ReplyDeleteI'm continually praying for you all. Love you.
ReplyDeleteAnne-Marie
hey, hang in there,i pray for u. i WILL see my favorite bishop again.love to marleigh and the rug rats. mean uncle brian
ReplyDeletehad begun to worry a little from not hearing. we know you are doing all the right things. It must be hard for you Marleigh to just stay put and let all else be covered by others but ut obviously what is needed now. We do miss you all and pray often. Put your names in Temple again last night. Much love to all of you. Jozi
ReplyDeleteLove the pic of the two of you. Always in our prayers. Luv ya both
ReplyDeleteActually Marleigh your report on your blog was about as good as it could be!! I'd say you are doing great!! Very glad to hear from you. The youth temple trip is on hold Saturday because of a funeral this Saturday... Gosh! We're actually surviving here just fine even though you aren't here. Miss you guys lots.
ReplyDelete--not quite as mean at uncle Brian... Not quite so mean Jay
At first you left, a hole opened in my heart.
ReplyDeleteNow it is filled with hope and love as I have let go of the selfishness.
As gray skies turn to blue and the leaves turn to red and gold
My heart reaches across the miles and thanks you
for your presence in my life.
Blessings, Love, Prayers, and Hugs to all of you!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for posting the update when you can!
Liz
We Love you guys, Hugs and kisses to everyone, we're thinking of you!
ReplyDeleteI am praying and thinking of you constantly. There aren't words to say how much I love nad miss you and the kids. Be WELL (and soon)! Hugs. Love, Gaylin
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